I have some goals for my life. Things I need to do to be truly happy. First, I’ve taken the steps I need to take to lose some weight that has crept up on me lately. I am involved with a group of people who have set this same goal for themselves. I think in order to reach my other goals of love, companionship, finding some place that really feels like home, etc. I have to do this for myself because if I’m not happy with myself or the way I look then I won’t ever be ready for the rest.